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Thanks Nikki! Hope the best for you!

Thanks Jules! You da best. What would I do without ya?

Ian, good to hear from you! Just read your post about feeling angry with your W today. Good! I'm sure you're working through some stuff you need to. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Really nice to get your vote on this and support for choosing not to respond. I, myself, really didn't have a strong feeling or opinion on this text from my H. Pretty detached, I guess. Interesting that you call it nonsense. Please share what you're thinking. What is the "underlying game" you're referring to?

Ummm no sh^t, you just talked about this teh other day. Of course you remember dumbas%



J, people who are saying things from their heart don't have to explain their words or apologize for what they are saying. They just say it with heartfelt honesty and not because they think its what you want to hear.




Ok J, hopefully you will get this point, it may be hard to follow. When I was trying to be serious with my wife i made sure to be serious. If i told her I love you, I said I love you. When I was trying to appease her, I would say, love ya..... understand.......


No offense intended here J, but he should have kept his fricken mouth shut if he couldnt be sincere with you. Personally, I find it distasteful that he said that to you and after all you have done and been through he couldnt even stand up and be a man and show you that this day is special and does mean something. Instead he plays games with it to try and toy with your emotions. Very cowardly........

When can I come out and give him those lessons, I have some free time and TRIP thinks I need to take a road trip....I'll straighten him out for ya......

Love it, Ian!!!! Thanks! Everything you say here makes sense.

Good morning, sweets. Hope it's a great (albeit rainy) day for you.

Well, it's raining here today. Very gray. Not just a little summer rain. It's sort of a nice change, as long as it doesn't stick around too long.

I got woke up by another text from my H. He was telling me that he'd deposited some cash into the night drop. According to what he said, he put twice as much as I asked was possible. That was nice. I'm wondering though if there's another check to clear that he could've wrote for a credit card payment. If so, that is going to more than eat up that extra money. We'll see. I may ask him via text later today, just for clarity.

I've been really thinking about the offer the broker gave me. There's a lot to weigh. Thanks to swashy for talking with me about it all last night. I need to interview some other offices. I feel like I'm going to naturally find the best fit for me. I've had interest in real estate for a long time, and during this study course my real passion to get into RE investing has been coming back. I'm looking into options for that area too right now.

Hope you're all having a nice Tuesday. Peace and love.

Good morning, Jules! You have a great day!! Take good care of yourself... no need for colds.

Thanks, HS! I don't know how well I see through the BS, to tell you the truth. I mean, I do question him and his motives but I don't always know what to make of stuff. I was glad Ian posted his thoughts last night, for example. It's very helpful to me. At the same time, I also know that there could be some more well-intentioned things going through my H's mind. I really don't know, but I think it's important not to let him pull me in while he's living his life the way he is. It's work, but I'm not stressing it.

Good talking with you last night J! This is they key to your happiness J. Stay detached. Don't get sucked in. Focus on you and all the wonderful things you have going on in your life. What he does and says really don't matter right now.

Hi F21,
just wanted to pop over and say Hi. You are doing great!

What's new? Did I miss if you are finished with your course?

just love u.