I asked him what he was doing differently with ow. He replied "nothing". A look of hopelessness must have come across my face, because he told me she just received word that her dad is very sick, and now is not the time. I said I was sorry for the dad's poor health, and left it at that. He offered up that he needs more time to figure things out.
I think this is what RCR means when she says they find it hard to break up with OW, there never seems to be a right time.... I have also read about this in Conway's book....sometimes it seems easier to just stay in the relationship than break up and have a mess....
The fact that he is connecting with you and contacting you is good I think....give it some time still....time is our BESTEST FRIEND !!!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
I haven't seen many of your posts but came across one indicating that your H came back after 2 years of S. I hope you don't mind me bumping this thread up. I think a lot of us here could use a little inspiration. There seems to be a shortage of success stories...
If you have the time, would you mind giving us an update? I guarantee it would be very much appreciated (and possibly followed by a barrage of questions).
