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I'll trade you places. You let my H in I'll let your IL's in.

I don't want to let them in, I want to send them on there way. Not sure why I have so much negativity towards them, but I do.

They've been your family now all of a sudden they aren't acting like it.

Yeah, that and the don't give a [censored] attitude. Guess maybe they are happy having to financially carry their daughter, and to heck what it is doing to their grandson. Wonder why I should care either.

Because you still believe in til death. I think that's rare these days.

Yes I do, just bad thought process day. Part of me wants to lash out at them for being so fricken out of it. No I don't want them to change anything, just their attitude about being like, oh well what happens happens. That is not these two people, nothing like they normally are, that is what is so weird about it.

I think everyone's having one of those days. Just have to ride it out.. Tough as it is.

They've been invaded by aliens too.

I saw go and show your respects. They are still family whether anyone likes it or not. Make your presence there all about her grandmother.

I was just thinking, my MIL has been arguing with her next door neighbor for about a year. Unfortunately the neighbor is right in his thinking and actions. It is funny to watch my FIL support her to this very day, even though when we have been by ourselves he tells me that the neighbor is right. So he will stand up for a stupid reason and vocally about it, but when it comes to his child and her marriage and his grandkid, he shuts the F up.
Getting myself into a tizzy for nothing.

I know I should, I know I will. It is just the thought of it that is making me sick to my stomach. Where were all of them when SHE needed them. Oh, they didn't have to worry because the evil son-in-law went out of his way every single day to do it for all of them. Heck even when wife was not at work she didn't go with me.