Hope you like the book Husband sent. I paid $100 for it and I do believe it was worth it if only for a few pieces of good advice. I found that there aren't too many books to help us in our sitch. I hope this book and DR put the breaks on your D. If nothing else at least it will prepare you for all that is to come.
One thing that really drives my wife for a loop is when I agree w/ everything she says. It takes all the steam out of her anger. Of course, when the D is on the line I may have to fib a little but for the moment it definitely makes me and her feel better. Besides, most of what she says she's lying about anyway. Keep the faith.
Hope the muppet is keeping his mits off your wheels!
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470
I am sorry about your sitch. It does appear that you have got your mind around it and are at peace. Congrats, you are doing a lot better than I.
I wish you the best of luck, and hang in there! I don'e know how to interpret her being nice to you. Either she is having second thoughts (I hope) or being duplicitous. Be careful and watch and wait.
--Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08