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Husband,

Checking my email now buddy,

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Andyv,

Hope you like the book Husband sent. I paid $100 for it and I do believe it was worth it if only for a few pieces of good advice. I found that there aren't too many books to help us in our sitch. I hope this book and DR put the breaks on your D. If nothing else at least it will prepare you for all that is to come.

One thing that really drives my wife for a loop is when I agree w/ everything she says. It takes all the steam out of her anger. Of course, when the D is on the line I may have to fib a little but for the moment it definitely makes me and her feel better. Besides, most of what she says she's lying about anyway. Keep the faith.

Hope the muppet is keeping his mits off your wheels!


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
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Thought I would see if all was fine--no posts in awhile?

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Hey Scout332

Andyv is out of town. Should be back soon

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Hi Andy,

I am sorry about your sitch. It does appear that you have got your mind around it and are at peace. Congrats, you are doing a lot better than I.

I wish you the best of luck, and hang in there! I don'e know how to interpret her being nice to you. Either she is having second thoughts (I hope) or being duplicitous. Be careful and watch and wait.

--Chris


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Hi Husband,

There are so many of us in OC and So. Cal (unfortunately) that we should form a GAL support group or something. That is if one does not already exist.

--Chris


Me: 40
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chrisD,

Yea it's something to think about. I think there is so many of us because of the dumb a$$ "no falut" divorce crap.


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Yes, probably true. California is awash in laws without biblical context. No fault divorce? How absurd. How can there be a divorce without some basis?

Anyway, could you send me a copy of that book "Stop Your Divorce" as well? My email is: phd_ChrisD@yahoo.com

Thanks,
--Chris


Me: 40
She: 31
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Phd,
It has been sent. I don't agree with everything in the book. you have to kind of pick and chose what to use.

Husband

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