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Well she knows it will get back to me. It is not that I don't believe she misses me, but not in the way he is thinking, I know it is possible, just not likely at this time. I could be completely wrong, who knows. It is more the part of telling him this stuff that gets me. I don't want her talking crap, but at the same time do not get his hopes up, unless it is true feelings she needs to not say things to him.
Well another full day at the beach, I am in trouble no matter what now, two of us look like lobsters, oh well, will look good in a couple days.

Yeah shouldn't use kids to send messages. She should just keep it neutral with him. At this point who knows how she really feels. She may not even know.

looking like lobsters huh. That's gotta hurt. Least it does when I look like one. Last time I got that much sun I ended up with blisters on my shoulders. I was in lots of pain.

Nope she shouldn't use him to say she is missing me, when she is not. I need to keep an open mind at the moment. My cell phone was not working a little while ago, so I went online to check it out, bad mistake. 37 text messages between her and her boss since an hour after we left town on friday, she hasn't had time to miss me.

Keep an open mind stay positive and enjoy your vacation. She's confused.

So far I'm doing good at staying positive. The last 3 days I've just felt more calm and positive. Hopefully I can keep that up.

I am going to stay positive, just a blow at the moment. That is 30+ more texts than I have ever sent or received from her. That and his divorce just became final a couple months ago.

I'm sure it's a blow. I'd probably loose it if I found out something like that about my H. My mind would go into overdrive.

It is right now. I do not want to read anything into it. What sucks is that he is a friend of mine, anybody but someone I know or a friend. That and with him just finishing up a divorce, I know he is on the prowl.

Yeah maybe it's harmless. I can tell you I've had moments over the years where my mind raced and it turned out to be harmless.

Don't you remember what you told me about that? Think about it...

Nope not at the moment, hopefully something good.