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God I love you guys!!! This has got to be the best support ever!!! Thank you all for your responses. I will take the advice & it is just what I thought I should do- nothing.

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it's nice, isn't it? Also, I get better advice here than from IRL friends.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10
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Hey guys! Please go see my thread on newcomers. My H has gone wacko!!!!!

I need your wisdom once again.

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I see people are reading,but I guess I am not getting any adivce today....((sigh))

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Chicki-

Cross post it. I tried but could not find it. post it here also

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know
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I dont know how to cross psot. It is under chicki's drama continues. I an only about the fourth one down under newcomers.

My H is has become really neorotic and revengeful especially since he misunderstood my reply via email this morning and now he really thinks I am seeing another man. Says he will move back in and HE will sleep in our bedroom and will move my stuff out to the extra room b/c he will not pay the house payment to have me "whore around".I do not put this pass him only that now I have new bedroom furniture that I know he cant move by himself(large & weighs a ton). A long time ago he pist off at me for soemthing and in one morning switched all stuff out including my bed and changed the bedroom locks!!!

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Hey chicki,

your post :Have you told our W that if your now rooomates she needs to pay her half of the house bills???

This is what my cheating H told me when I kicked him out of the room and stopped having sex w/ him. Can you believe the nerve? He wanted me to continue sexually even after I knew about OW.

I stopped feeding him cake soon after..he got way tooo fat!


reminded me of a bumper sticker on my pickk up in high school:

ASS,GRASS or CASH nobody rides for free

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It surely means that I don't know
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Husband,
Hmm...sounds like you have always had an adventerous spirit!




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


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Another question!


How do you all handle your little ones wanting to sleep w/ you in your bed seeing as how your SO is no longer living w/ you.

I have let my D10 sleep w/ me s she is the only one hso will not toss & turn & kick me around,but I know the others get jealous. Should I stop? D10 has never been one to like sleeping alone & long ago I told my mom (who spoils her by letting her sleep w/ her on her overnite stays) that I did not do this at home. Now I have gone mixed feelings as to if I should continue.

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