Yeah, I'm sure we're thinking the same thing. I can now so see how H did it and so easily.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
lucky for me like you (I think) the person was not local. Sometimes things move realy quick. Funny thing is though If My W affair did not happen I would NEVER had been in that situation. It would have NEVER CROSSED MY MIND.
Husband
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
One time my H accused me of getting info from OW's H. Odd thing he thought it was so terrible that I might be talking to him and what is my H doing the other H's wife? I think his crimes might be a little more serious than ours.
Husband, like you said we are the ones who experience guilt and they show no guilt and go on their own merry way.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I just read your e-mail to your H, I was very impressed with it and very happy for you and H. Although I am more emotional these days It brought tears to my eyes. I printed it so I could read it later, something to shoot for with my W.
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
Ok, guys & gals, things got real *bad* last night. We ended up IM'ing until about 1 a.m. and at first it was real innocent, but he ended up saying some things, well let's just say I feel really guilty now. Obviously knew I shouldn't be *talking* to him to begin w/ so obviously knew it was wrong. I'm going to have to tell him that we can't do that again. I feel really bad now. And actually, Husband, he is local -- he's a friend of H's!!!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I had the same thing happen with W's best friend (post MLC). She is only 24, and was smitten. She wanted to go to a few sporting events with me and my friends and then tried to instigate something more serious.
She has been one of my biggest supporters, so I had to nip it in the bud. I could only see huge problems ahead. As this guy is your H's friend I can only see problems ahead.
IM'ing is okay, a bit of fun, and hopefully he saw it the same way.
Don't feel bad.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
