take a step back from everything for a few days. dude has a lot on his mind and we need to teach him that he can't take it out on you. remember that when you guys are back together there is going to be conflict, it's not all peaches and cream(did i just type peaches and cream? who says that?)..... you two are going to have to learn how to deal with that without going to extreams(i'm giving up, i'm changing the locks, briniging up the past to guilt you, i'm not going over there anymore). you'll do it, i got faith in you. much love to yall, happy 4th
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
Did you used to go outside to smoke with your ex? Did you work on her car?
If so, WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN?
If not, remind me who you are, please!
I see you cavort with Ian.....
Yes I used to go outside to smoke with my ex.....I now do that with my girlfriend of 9 months +.........Yes I worked on ex's car.....
And where the hell have I been? All over the place....virtually and physically! Been busy on other matters other than camping out on the boards....and yes I cavort with Ian. More cavorting to draw the truth out of people more than anything.
Other than that, I surf the boards to help, give insight, or just plain updates of a divorced Dad......some people are just out of touch with reality until it hits them like a brick wall....not saying I want to be there when it happens.....well, ok...yes I do ...but it is more for HELPING them once that blast of reality hits them and try to offer some advice.
The kids and I just stopped by the apartment. We've been at Yorktown today. When I went over to pick up D11, H invited me to stay for a cookout with them this evening.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
Make sure you come back tonight and give us an update.