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OMGosh... I was just coming to post that I got called back, too!! At first she said I was supposed to interview tomorrow at 8, then called me right back and said I was supposed to START tomorrow at 8!! OMGosh... I only have one dress... lol.. and I work until at least 1 tonight and I have all this laundry and and and... panic mode...

Oh AND I got locked out of MY computer and I didn't erase my history and I think maybe I left this window up, just minimized it. Great. Hope DH calls me back before I leave tonight so he can help get in before he gets home (he comes to get 7yoDS). Great.. if he can't tell me how to fix it before I leave, I'm taking it with me. Crap!!!

Oh and of course.. GOOD LUCK!!!

Wow! How odd for both of us the same day! I interview at 11... Yeah I have like two "work" outfits. Will definitely have to go shopping! Yeah panic would be a good word to use. lol

Well I hope you get your comp working again. At least he's willing to help you out.

Good luck to you as well

Congrats to both of you on your new jobs!

Well I'm hoping it's my new job. LOL If not I'll keep trying.

Oh i misread..sorry! I'll keep my fingers crossed

NM

Thanks I appreciate it. Really need to get a job.

Well today is the anniversary of our first date 11 years ago. Trying not to let it get me down. It's just sad. I really miss him.

On a bright note though I had my interview this morning. Not sure really how it went but it wasn't bad. Very laid back they asked only a handful of easy questions. Said they'd have a decision in the next week or so since next week is a holiday. Keeping my fingers crossed.

Boy sometimes the hopelessness just creeps right on in.

So do you believe what they so or no? I mean I hear you shouldn't believe what he's saying but geesh sometimes that's hard especially when it's something negative.

Guess I'm just not having a good night.... Hate this!

Just fight that hoplesness, it will get better and you know it.
As for believing what they say, don't. In my case, my wife started off (about 4 months ago) with that she is not in love with me, she is moving on, she is filing for divorce. I was devasted, I was ready to file first because of what she said. Then a month ago she she told me she was thinking about us. Then last week said she had no plans to file for divorce.Then today she called as her and son left for a week to let me know they were on the road and would call when they got to IL's house.
She said at the end of the convo .."my nickname" take care of yourself. See if I had believed in the begining what she said, I would be about divorced by now. The bit about my nick name she uses for me, well in the good ole days it was her main way of talking to me, not to much in the last year or so. Now she has used it 3 times in a month, I know I shouldn't count, but I have alot of free time.
Am I closer to being back together, don't know. But if I believed everything said, I would be divorced. Just my opinion.

789,
Thanks I know I don't always feel this way just having a lousy night I guess.

Yeah I know I shouldn't "listen" and should take it with a grain of salt. Just hard sometimes ya know. The only thing my H has said was that he wasn't going to rush to file papers unless I wanted him too. Otherwise he was going to drag his feet. I've been doing this for almost 2 months guess I just need to hang tough.

Sounds like maybe you're making some progress. That's good. I hope I can have some positive posts at some point.