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I do need to find a new hobby. Sadly finances are an issue so it limits things. My resume' is pristine. I update it every quarter just in case.

How are you doing today besides being bored with slience?

So so. I feel very unsure about the days ahead. But I know I love her. I know I love my family. And I know this will probably be the biggest trial of my life.

Some hobbies don't cost much. What do you like to do?

That's part of my problem. I really don't know what I like to do. My activities have been surrounded by my family for so long that I don't know. I used to play a lot of computer games cause they were cheap and free. But I need to get OUT and do something badly. I like to fish, but it's a 100miles any direction from me to hit a fishing hole. The horses with my wife and D were going to be an outlet but that hangs in the balance now.

How about hiking, tennis, swimming, horseshoes, bowling. Those are the things I have been doing to fill up time and space in life right now.

Force yourself to start walking, biking, swimming, martial arts anything to get the ticker pumping.

I've been walking in the evenings. Can't do it during the day here cause it's touching 100degrees. Bowling is expensive here 789, too bad cause I love to do that...not much fun alone.

Don't they have like late night or early morning bowling. Here it is about 5 bucks for a lane for an hour.

There are other hobbies you could do too. Sports leagues? Meet up with friends. Board game nights. There's more to do than look at the walls at your place....I'm sure of it.