Well folks - my plan is to see the agreement that he and his L work up and use my free consult (working on finding one) to have it reviewed....
I'm happy to hear that!
What about getting a Legal Aid L?
And mediation can still work even if one or both of you is set on a D.
If you're interested, I have a very complete parenting plan that I got from Jeff223. I can send it to you if you're interested; just give me your email if you want it.
It will certainly keep you busy, lol!
~Nicola
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
And sometimes what a person really REALLY needs is simply to be heard and offered compassion. Barking at someone to "get over it" when feelings are new and raw is a sucky way to treat people, imho. I realize this stage is part of your past, but it's a new one to her.
I know that many of us get very protective of others on the BBs. I have also rushed to the defence of those I have felt were being treated unfairly, only to see later (in most cases), that the original poster was right.
Honestly, the most helpful posts I've had have been the ones that seemed at the time to be the harshest. I also thought that I needed to be heard and soothed, and I got that from a lot of people. But when I was spinning around in circles, it was not the ONLY thing I needed.
Maybe you will understand better when you've been here for two years. Well, hopefully you'll be reconciled by then.
KS is lucky to have a friend like you.
Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan
If you're interested, I have a very complete parenting plan that I got from Jeff223. I can send it to you if you're interested; just give me your email if you want it.
nicola, Can you send it to me as well? I am in kinda a sticky sitch as well and anything would be helpful....
Thanks, Ben
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Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
I do appreciate ALL of the advice. I just know this sucks, and I should already weigh 120 lbs 
