Dear Ron, I'm sad that you have decided to go calmly into the night. I'm sad that people divorce when forgiveness, letting go of resentment and the pain it brings would save a marriage. I wish you luck and joy and love. gd1
It is so sad because it can be so easy. Keep in mind, however, that it only takes 1 to break up a marriage. It takes 2 to make one. Despite all the desire and forgiveness and such, if your spouse wants (for whatever reason) out, then out it will be.
