I'm only the alpha male because WAW hasn't kicked me in the n*** in a day or so. anyway, please look at my thread and help me with a strategy that will make me irresistable to WAW. I'm in a holding pattern trying to figure out what to do next. So far all I've come up with is do nothing and let her make the next move. That's a tough one for us A males (that's Alpha not A**hole in case your wondering).
Don't bring that weak a** "B-game" with you here, this is strictly an "A-game" thread!!!
Don't you worry about me. I have my A-game ready, it's called confidence, kindness, and understanding.
The reason behind the changes is the desire to be a better man, father and husband. I love my wife, I am whipped, but not by lust or need, or just physical attraction, but by deep meaningful love. I will get her to remember that with God's help. Of myself I can do nothing, I am nothing. With God's help, I can do anything and everything.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
So, funny thing, last time when we were scheduled for this meeting, I could NOT concentrate on anything else. My chest was so tight, I was waiting for the heart attack to happen, my stomach hurt so bad, I couldn't eat. Then when I got to the meeting, I was 100% calm. The spirit guided me and it turned out well.
This time, I'm not worried. I'm a little scared about not being worries, but then I remember how the spirit guided me and I'm comforted. I do pray that opposite doesn't occur and I get all whacked during the meeting, but I place this all in God's hands and I know it'll work out well. Kinda hard for it not to in his church. That's why I thank him every day that my W is doing it this way as opposed to with L's. I have SO much to be grateful for and I won't ever forget again...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
LOL, I told you I'm no chihuahua (I'm 6'3" 205 lbs for heaven's sake!) She's going to get the big - jump up on her, lick her face til she needs a towel to get the slobber off. Then I'm going to lay in her lap so she can run her fingers through my hair. THEN we might talk.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...