ahhh ua, my god am I feeling for you right now. I can see your pain clearly and understand it and really wish someone was there to just hug you right now.
The scorned husband is striking back, I fealt that at some point this might happen. He was wronged and is hurt and has decided to punish you for what you did to him by doing the same to you.
He hasn't been able to resolve it on his own with changing his feelings so he instead has chose a path to hurt you back. Silly silly man.
Deal with the daughter issue, move on and see what happens down the orad for you. Your feelings may never come back for him, then again they might. Only you will know when and if the time comes for you to decide what to do.
I will say it again, just because you need to keep hearing it, let go and have faith. Your an incredibly strong woman UA, don't lose sight of that and stay focused on exactly what you said, you and your D.
OK, so HE may need a new beginning. A fresh start, clear cut closure to the marriage that self destructed. It may even be his only path back to you, who knows......
Do not even think about your H or the sitch for a while.
You are pissed and rightfully so. But you need to just take a break. You are tired of fighting right now. You need a way to recharge so that you can re-evaluate this whole thing with a Clear head.
Who cares about the past and future right now. Just live for today for this minute. Every angry breath you take you are wasting the happy ones. Smile and make someone else smile today.
Let go of everything for now. Let God take over and steer for a while.
Ben
By the way if you don't cheer up You might have to look at my ugly ass bald head beating on your door....
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Back to fixing and improving the "NamechangingChick".
Now get your head out of your a$$ and cheer up.
Sorry about the last one but I have not been able to that to you for about 3 months now so I thought I would break it out one more time....
Take a step back right now and start to take inventory on all of the positives in your life. You do have plenty of them right now and you H is not one so leave him off the list.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
