Yeah but you thought MySpace chick was too close. I may be wrong but is it okay for him to have any female friends?
I used to think anytime a male/female friendship was in play it meant something was going on. That is one of the reasons I am where I am today. If only I trusted my H. I am aware of his friendship with this OW and I am fine with it now. It is just a friendship. I can even drive by her place and if his car is there I am ok. They coach together and so they meet up and go over things. If he were trying to hide anything, he could park at his place and walk to hers but he doesn't.
What I am getting at is men and women can be friends. I have a MF who I talk to and have been to his place alone watching tv and it is innocent.
I know you are pi$$ed more at the fact he asked your daughter to lie or not even tell you. I would be angry about that too but while you are in the anger stage, don't have any contact. Let things ride a bit. He may have told her that to see if she would come back and tell you. Or, it may be that he knows she would tell you and you would get mad and confront him and that would be his excuse to yell and fuss. Don't give him the ammo to do it. Be the bigger person and just ignore him. See what happens. I bet if you don't say anything to him it would be harder on him. That is just my opinion.
