hey there, how are you...I know you are hurting and my H has done the same thing to me. He told D7 about his girlfriend and not to tell me that he is going to keep seeing her. That was in Feb and that R fizzled out shortly thereafter...just stand still as hard as it is.. BELIEVE ME what I tell you that it is one of the most hurtful things that can be done. BUT don't sink to his level...hang in there girl and lean on us.
We had a brush pile in the back yard at one time that needed burning and I always used to tease H and tell him I would put him in the pile before I burned it. He told his mom if he was ever missing to check the brush pile, especially if I decided to burn it all of a sudden.
Whatever you decide to do to him, don't tell anyone....less chance of getting caught.
I just sent you an e-mail. Not sure if you wanted me to post it or not.
Either way just comfort your daughter and let her know the truth. They are a lot smarter than people give them credit for. I am really starting to see that in my own two children. They are making they own choices now on how to deal with CB.
EX: D2 used to always cry when CB left now she pays her no mind and it actually is taking its toll on CB. S4 is the same way. I always make sure they treat her with nothing but respect but it is there attitude towards her that is changing in a way that I have no control over nor do I want any. All I can do is make sure they respect her and let them know that their mother loves them. Oh, another thing Dominic did not want to go with CB yesterday and she had to bribe him to go. Ofcourse I talked him into it as well but it is what it is.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
The bad thing about his actions with this is this is so something his ex would do - something that would piss him off, but he's expecting ME to be bitter and act like her.
WTF!!!!!!!!!!
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
