Folks, it all amounts to the same thing, the person saying those things wants to try it with someone else, they think they are the answer to all thier problems, conversely, you, by that I am the LBS, are the cause of all thier problems. Are they the answer to thier problems? NO WAY! LOL Its the great big fat WHAT IF! Its my experience that the big fat WHAT IF turns into the great big fat WTF! LOL
I found this quote soon after I got the ILYBNILWY bomb. I don't know who wrote it so I don't know who to attribute it to, but I like it.
"When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It errupts like an earthquake then it subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision; you have to work out whether your roots have become so intwined together that it is inconceivable that you two should ever part, because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness; it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day, it's not laying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No, that is just being in love, which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love, itself, is what is left over when being in love has burned away."
Last edited by butterflymom; 05/30/0702:53 PM.
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
Your quote is right. However in my sitch, part of the problem is that Ws friends are all single/divorced and they jump from guy to guy. So they always have that passion/romance that come from the "in love" feeling. I think W wonders why we don't have it when her friends do.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
So what happens if TJ admitted he knows he cares about me?
Is that good? Is that bad?
Last edited by Holly06; 05/31/0701:13 AM.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
