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And jump the gun at the first sign of the spouse waving the white flag.

Hey... I had a busy day yesterday and couldn't get back here. But no I am not giving up. School starts tomorrow for 3 weeks then I finally go to work. I also had a coaching session yesterday with Jody that went fairly well.

So, why is your wife waiting for 2 months to file? I don't get that? She doesn't really want to do it?

She has to be a resident here for 6 months to file. She has been working for 5 months but just got her resident drivers license last month so she may have to wait longer to file which would be a good thing

Ugh, I hate it when the answer is all logical like that. I hope the time works in your favor.

Thanks Jryan, I hope so to. I will read your sitch. How long have you been here?

So in these two months, what's your plan? What is she unhappy about?

Hi everyone, I am over my pity party. Now I need to focus on what to do to make this work. I hate the merry go round and the depresion that goes with it.

Well all righty then.

Hi Amy,
No idea where to start now. I have only seen her twice in 2 weeks and then only for a minute. I started truck driving school a few weeks ago and graduate this week. She says she wants a d in July. I don't know weather to take an over the road long haul job a regional job or a local job. I know she is still talking to an ex boy friend who is supposed to be engaged. Don't know where that is going. Been working real hard at getting a life again and I am almost there. Hope she see's that.I won't be signing any d papers ever. Not going to happen. Just have to figure out what steps to take now and try to stay sane at the same time