Thanks both of ya I pretty sure she is feeling the guilt. But she was single for 30 years before we met and is used to being so damn independent. She is also a Libra and I'm a Pisces. Not to get my hopes up but... She seems to have softened a little. I think I have her curiosity peeked. She knows I'm talking to another Woman.... I think she may realize she is now on a time line. Wait to long and she may lose me. She has no reason not to trust me however with her "mistake" it does kind of leave it open. Called her cell at lunch time to let her know I came home early to pick our son up. No answer. She called home about 20 later from her work phone. When I answered the phone she said "oh you home" I told her yes and I left her a message on her cell phone because she was going out to her car at lunch. (I know from when I was a bad boy and was checking her cell phone log she was calling the OM).But……I….don’t…..check …it …any…more..!!! She said she does not go to her car anymore for lunch.
Detachment and having a fun time with my friends and son I think is making her feel left out. Then again who knows? She said she wants me to go see her C. with her so her C can meet me. Any inputs??
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
husband, July 26 will be my 21st anniversary. I too think about it coming up. I think my goal is to detach more. I think I have been going down too many cheesless tunnels!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Feeling down this morning. So many mixed messages going thru my head. Last night my D 23 called and talked to my W about getting a ride home at 10:00pm. When W got off the phone she asked if my jeep was on the driveway because she was going to pick up my F (her SD) up. I told her no but I could go pick her up. She said she called her not me to go. I said because I am usually in bed at that time. My W then called my D back I was walking into the room and said “I don’t see what difference it makes I if pick her up or you do why are you calling her back? Do you think if she see’s me there instead of you she won’t get in? My D then pick up the phone and my W said your dad is going to pick you up and then she hung up and told me that maybe my D caller HER because she wanted to talk to my W about things going on with he friends. I said maybe she wants to talk to me about her friends. Then my W tossed the TV remote down on the couch where she was sitting and went back to watching T.V.
Total different attitude from earlier in the day. Sitting in the parking lot waiting for my D I text mess. Her and just said “sorry I upset you” No words were exchanged after I got home. Is she going thru OM withdraw? I want so bad to check the cell phone log but I am resisting. Got to clean the fish tank
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I haven't, but there is an organization called Retroville (prounounced retro-vee) That is supposed to be excellant. They are worldwide so they may have one on the left coast.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
weds after our joint mmmeting my W say she liked it because my C got to know her and she gt to meet my C. She said she is going to talk to her C about me going to meet her
This mornig when I asked if she called he C about me going to see her first she said her C never mentioned me going. I said remember after our meetingwith my C you said you wanted me togo see your C ? she said she does not remember ever eaying that. I just left the room.
This is crazy. I swear I don't know who is better off. The people who are just flat out fighting or one like mine that just keeps changing lanes...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
