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Well I'm happy to say that our R seems to be getting playful. Maybe even flirtatious. Not sure.

We had a very stressful week but we clung together and made it through it.

However I get pushed away pretty quickly if I try to pull her close and kiss her. Hopefully that changes very soon.

Xue

GO Xue!

That is all.

Sven

Thanks Sven,

I moved over to the SSM forums. Not sure where I'm supposed to be.

But I'm happy to say the movement over the past few days has definitely been towards the positive.

Been stressful lately but the stress seems to be bonding us rather than tearing us apart. And the stressful situation is coming to a close anyway.

It's all good

Maybe I'll be drinking that celebratory Opus One I have stashed away soon.


Xue

Just keep at it. Sooner or later you will beat the problem, or find out the aspect you haven't addressed yet.

Xue,

One step at a time, one hand hold, one kiss....slowly foward. You're a master of calm in this and just keep pushing slowly, slowly...it sounds like she's slowly melting. Buy that little girl a piece of candy!

OTB

"or find out the aspect you haven't addressed"

Yeah I've done that about a hundred times. Getting to be quite the norm now. Personal development seems to be like a ship. Takes a whole lot to get going but as the momentum picks up it tends to want to stay in motion. I seem to have a full head of steam as I learn new things and gain deeper understandings each day. W is on the same path.

Objects in motion tend to stay in motion

"Piece of candy? Does a shiny red convertible with a 5.0 liter count. Just got her one of those.

Hand holding has been taboo throughout this but kissing OK. The kisses seem to be like a gauge. I have to say the gauge is showing a bit more than luke warm lately. The other day at lunch I grabbed her hand as I kissed her. Seemed to be ok. Her body language has definetely changed towards me.

Yep, slowly, aaaaarrrrghhhhhh, slowly.

Xue