Fantastic news, and what a man you have in your 15 year old. Good stuff.
Be well, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
I agree with you. It is incredibly sweet. I can see why the little ones go for it so much. I got it stratight from the tap about 3-4 times. It is an incredible INTIMATE experience for a couple. Yet my wife felt uncomfortable doing it, that stuff was for the BABIES. Yet again, her desire to be MOMMY exceeds her desire to be WIFE (which makes no freaking sense, because to be a great mommy you have to be a great wife FIRST).
"I got it stratight from the tap about 3-4 times. It is an incredible INTIMATE experience for a couple. Yet my wife felt uncomfortable doing it, that stuff was for the BABIES."
I have a pretty healthy sexual outlook and THAT would have wierded me out too. You keep projecting your view of what is completely intimate for a couple to do. Nursing is a primal thing for a woman to do for her CHILD. The LAST thing I want is my H nursing on me and making me think of a child.
YOU may think it's "intimate", but I'm wondering how many women here do....I for one, think it's an awkward and uncomfortable position to put your wife in.
Returning this thread back to it's original owners, Karen & Joseph :-)
Obviously it bothers some of the women, and some it does not. Some men obviously like it as well. Heck, it was in the movie Blue Lagoon about 30 years ago with Brook Shields as a TEENAGER. As for putting her in awkward positions, like I said, I did it 3-4 times until she asked me to stop. I never did it while she was nursing. What exactly do you think all the attention men give their wives breasts is about, it is FAKE suckling. But the REAL thing is bad?
You are completely missing my point. Did I say it was bad? No. Once again you twisted what I said. I also didn't assume you were doing it while she was nursing the baby...that would be WAAAY wierd IMPO. I said it feels awkward and uncomfortable for many women. If your W had to ask you to stop then she felt awkward and uncomfortable...wierded out if-you-will about it. It is a primal part of a woman that breast milk is for the survival of the baby. Some women will be ok with their mate nursing, but that's an individual thing. If the woman is comfortable with it then sure, it can be intimate. If she's not...then, it's not intimate. Plain and simple. Is that black and white enough for ya?
The fact that it was in a movie is a mute point...so what?
If the woman is comfortable with it then sure, it can be intimate. If she's not...then, it's not intimate.
And therein lies most of the problem in marriage to LD spouses, THEY define intimacy, and their definition of intimacy is so much smaller then what a HD person would define it.
Once again, I find myself in the camp of Cemar. What does that say about me? -lol . One of the most laugh-until-I-cry-and-almost-pee-my-pants conversations I ever participated in in my life took place when my kids were babies and I lived in married student housing. A bunch of us parents male and female were sitting around watching the babies play in the sandbox and somehow the topic of getting breast milk during sex came up. Based on that convo, I would say most people are pretty mellow about it but think it's pretty funny too. Of course, being the woman whose ideal man would like a "snowball", I can't imagine being with a guy who would be weirded out by a little breast milk. However, in my experience, my milk never "came down" during sex, just a little spare leakage. Nursing is a sympathetic response like crying so just being suckled won't necessarily make it happen. I think something like out of "Grapes of Wrath" would have to be going on in order for that to occur full force.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Lacks for being in my camp. My wife also experienced some blockage issues wiht every kid, so she ended up being hooked up to pumping machines the first few times to get her opened up. SO it was completely NATUREAL for her to get hooked up to a suction machnine while holding two hoses and cups to her breasts, while not even CONSIDERING using ME to help, and no I did not volunteer as I knew how she felt.
