I am so saddened to hear how the spouses have introduced their kids to OW!!! This just blows me away more than anything. I guess it bothers me so much because this woman should not be with our h's to begin with, and she has no business being around the very kids she has helped to destroy.
The ones in denial are the ones engaging in immoral activity.
I cannot wait to see how long my H's fling lasts with OW because they were living at her daughter's (lots of diversion there) and now, it is just the two of them. Oh, how fun!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The term SF is "morally bankrupt".....those OW's be......hid my cell phone so i can hear the TM go off.....he wants to call tonite.......arrrggghhhhh....not sure I can deal........
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Cell phones--arghhh---one thing I hate is calling and/or talking to him when he is with OW. He always calls me just before he leaves his office and I just call and leave messages (valid ones!) throughout the day so he can listen to them before he is with her.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
now that he is in a small place with her, i would bet that bathroom is a lot harder to escape to.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
My H calls on his way to work or on his way home..... Sometimes he even whispers when he is leaving a message on my cell! I find this so interesting that he has to hide his phone calls to my cell from Ow...
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
This is so funny because (at least I can laugh about it now) he used to talk to OW in front of the girls while at home but for him to talk to me--well he has to sneak around.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
the way H talks to me it is like OW doesnt exist...
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
