Our entire family knows about the A and knew when we found out two years ago. H cut off all ties with his family. A few months ago he was complaining that nobody in his family would call him to see how he was doing. Of course, I kept my mouth shut.
I think H's A was more about wild drinking but since he can no longer drink, let's hope reality sinks back in. H's OW is older than he by about 6 months. She will be 52 this year.
Now when you were with other person, did you think about your spouse?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Mrs. MoonDog has appeared to be chasing after her lost youth. All of her words and actions indicate that she feels that she was deprived of it thanks to our long and early-starting relationship.
I mentioned the fact that I felt younger in an affair. A big part of that was due to the fact that I was drawn into the world of a younger woman.
I could understand her wanting to go after a young, good-looking man to try to regain the feeling she has been missing. I really could.
BUT...
Her OM was three years older than me, (I am two years older than her) very much overweight and out of shape, balding and has all of the bad habits and qualities that she didn't want me to have.
I am confused at that to say the least...
Argue your limitations and sure enough, they are yours. - Richard Bach
