HB - It's really annoying, isn't it?! They can kill us for months and yet, don't want to devastate the OW.
We'll see if H can actually follow through with it. Hopefully, OW will start begging and pleading and making a nuisance of herself. In the meantime, here's me
Olive, it seems like your h is on his way back. This is great. Just a word of caution about 2 steps forward, one step back. He will have a difficult time letting go. I completely agree with "kill us for months but don't want to devastate OW". I hate to think that H is still putting OW's welfare/feelings above mine. There's a song "Trust me .. It's Love". I like the lyrics. Hang in there. I made the mistake of getting my hopes too high, I think. Just hang in there. HUGS.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
Nope..not yet. I don't think it's going to happen too quickly at the pace I'm hitting the gym! I'll just sit back and let you report on how much you're working out.. haha!
Oc - We'll see what happens. I am trying to remain ever so slightly optimistic. Haven't heard any updates or anything so I just have to assume that things remain the same or are moving along sloooowwwwlllly. I suppose during this whole "breakup" process there is always the chance that H will end up deciding that he can't end it with OW so therefore, he should leave ME!
In the meantime, H has been back in our bed every night. And, I'm still being
Well.. This M is over. As soon as H gets back from an "errand", I am telling him that I'm leaving. He lied about a gift that OW got our child. He said numerous times when questioned that he bought it for her. He did not. It was (as was a VD gift) purchased by the B*#%h of an OW. Mess with my H.. fine. But stay the F away from my child! I am so mad I can't even see straight!!!!!!!!!!!!