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HB - It's really annoying, isn't it?! They can kill us for months and yet, don't want to devastate the OW.

We'll see if H can actually follow through with it. Hopefully, OW will start begging and pleading and making a nuisance of herself. In the meantime, here's me

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:cool" and me!


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
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You're funny HB!

H is freaking out because he can't concentrate at work - says he can't stop thinking about home...

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Olive, are you toned up yet???

I am running like a hamster on steroids (without the steroids)...

I am also drinking water like a horse - my body is changing from the inside - I can FEEL IT!!!!!

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Olive, it seems like your h is on his way back. This is great. Just a word of caution about 2 steps forward, one step back. He will have a difficult time letting go. I completely agree with "kill us for months but don't want to devastate OW". I hate to think that H is still putting OW's welfare/feelings above mine. There's a song "Trust me .. It's Love". I like the lyrics. Hang in there. I made the mistake of getting my hopes too high, I think. Just hang in there. HUGS.


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Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
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Nope..not yet. I don't think it's going to happen too quickly at the pace I'm hitting the gym! I'll just sit back and let you report on how much you're working out.. haha!

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Oc - We'll see what happens. I am trying to remain ever so slightly optimistic. Haven't heard any updates or anything so I just have to assume that things remain the same or are moving along sloooowwwwlllly. I suppose during this whole "breakup" process there is always the chance that H will end up deciding that he can't end it with OW so therefore, he should leave ME!

In the meantime, H has been back in our bed every night. And, I'm still being

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Keep in mind, these OP represent a fantasy and that can be very hard to let go of. Time and patience are necessary.


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Well.. This M is over. As soon as H gets back from an "errand", I am telling him that I'm leaving. He lied about a gift that OW got our child. He said numerous times when questioned that he bought it for her. He did not. It was (as was a VD gift) purchased by the B*#%h of an OW. Mess with my H.. fine. But stay the F away from my child! I am so mad I can't even see straight!!!!!!!!!!!!

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