DO NOT take that as an insult. A lot of men hope and wish to have their mate as a friend.
When we were going through a real rough spot in the rebuilding - not long after the bomb and thought we were going to separate, I asked my H if he would still be my friend. He almost broke down in tears and said it really struck him hard when I said that as he never thought of me like that before but realized that all this time, even during the As, I WAS his friend, and he takes his friendships VERY seriously
So, it isn't necessarily a bad thing - at least it wasn't in my case
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
It did make me feel good in a way to hear him say that, but in another way, a friend is not what i was wanting to be exactly. I had told him before that we couldn't be friends if we weren't together, only friendly for the childrens sake. I am hoping that he will see one day before it's too late that he will never find a woman who would treat him better than me. I just hope it won't be too late.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
